No matter how scared you are, it won’t be helpful if you panic. Work through your emotions. Don’t let them be out of control. While it is but normal to feel all those wide range of emotions, at some point you have to gain some control over your feelings so you can plan your next step. While this may seem easier said than done, it is necessary. You have to go past all those guilty, angry, and resentment feelings so you can think rationally. They won’t go away right off the bat but you just have to let them go and keep an open mind. The fact is that you are pregnant and you have to deal with it whether you like it or not.
You have to take responsibility. Be the master of the situation and take control. It is important to come to terms with everything and stop blaming yourself or anybody else. Graciously accept help from people you know and believe in. It is crucial to have your family support you regardless of how you decide to resolve the situation. If you decide to keep your pregnancy, discuss this with your loved ones and get their full support. The road ahead won’t be easy. However, as long as you have their support, you’ll manage.
On the other hand, if you decide to have an abortion, educate yourself about the procedure. Consult with a health care practitioner to help you weigh the pros and cons of the options you have and their possible complications. Abortion is a big decision that can have life-long consequences. The implications can be devastating. This is why make sure that it is indeed the best solution for you before going ahead with it.
Finally, regardless of the choice you make in the end, you should be able to come out from the whole experience with no ill feelings in your heart. Move ahead and look at life positively. It is your life and you alone should decide what’s best for you.
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